Restoring Feminine Innate Power with IAMIT System
Uncover what many women have called the missing piece on their healing journey. Start healing the Mother Wound and create the “inner safety” you need to become the unstoppable woman you’re meant to be.
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Are you tired of struggling with…
Feeling paralyzed by a sense of not being good enough?
Being stuck in a loop of comparing yourself to others?
Wanting to show up differently but scared of how people will react?
The fear of losing people you love if you change and grow?
Feeling frozen when it’s time to honor your needs and boundaries?
Having issues with food or body-image?
Experiencing struggles with money and creating abundance?
Shame, and feeling like something is fundamentally wrong with you?
Getting triggered and not knowing why?
Knowing you should be working with your “inner child” but not sure how?
Attracting people who are not supportive of you?
Receive a powerful and proven system designed to clear harmful emotional patterns — including shame, anger, fear, grief, apathy, and guilt — at the level of your nervous system, where they’re often perpetuated.
Are you aware of emotional patterns that are holding you back, keeping you stuck in your life?
Maybe you’re in a holding pattern when it comes to your emotional health, physical wellbeing, career success, or your relationships because you just can’t seem to release that one sticky limiting mindset.
Or perhaps you’ve made progress on healing but find yourself on a plateau that’s clearly below your optimum level of awareness because you’re plagued with self-sabotaging beliefs.
Trying to shift these harmful emotions on your own by willing yourself to do so can be a painful and slow process — because you’re working against energetic patterns that have been in place your entire life and that often were put in place for good reasons of their own.
How Does the Mother Wound Happen?
There is no one specific reason why the mother wound happens—a variety of factors can contribute to it. However, a child may develop a mother wound if their mother:
Meets their physical but not their emotional needs. For example, feeding them and changing their diapers, but not providing them with comfort, warmth, and emotional safety.
Resists their negative emotions, potentially even admonishing them for expressing their negative feelings.
Has a critical mindset toward their child.
Doesn’t respond empathically to their child’s emotions (and hence prevents their child from learning how to manage and communicate their emotions).
Expects the child to cater to their own physical and emotional needs.
Is addicted to alcohol or drugs.
Struggles with an untreated mental health condition.
Is unavailable to the child, whether this is physically through working or emotionally through distraction or mental health issues.
Has unprocessed experiences of physical or emotional abuse themselves, making it difficult for them to be emotionally available for their child.
What is the high cost of Avoiding the Mother Wound?
The core belief within the Mother Wound is a vague, persistent sense that, “There’s something wrong with me.” Left unaddressed, this unconscious belief may touch every area of our lives, causing us to indefinitely remain small, stuck and feeling undeserving. This can result in not fulfilling your potential and arranging your life around “not rocking the boat.”
Mother Wounds in Sons
The mother wound is often referred to in the context of mother-daughter relationships. However, sons can experience a mother wound, too. In fact, an unacknowledged mother wound can significantly impact a man’s life in several ways.
Men with an unprocessed mother wound may long for a woman’s love and approval, particularly if they develop an anxious attachment style in childhood. The anxious attachment style is characterized by reassurance-seeking and clingy behaviors in relationships, which may occur as a means of compensation for a lack of love someone felt from their mother.
However, mother wounds don’t always lead to anxious attachment. In some instances, the mother wound can cause men to develop an avoidant attachment style. Avoidantly attached men may shut down their difficult feelings, causing them to feel out of reach and distant in relationships.
Aside from insecure attachment, men who experienced the mother wound may also struggle with feelings of inadequacy and sadness, which then manifests as anger. This anger may reveal itself in random, unconnected scenarios, such as in a traffic jam or at work.
Mother Wounds in Daughters
For daughters, the mother wound can involve a strong sense of shame that something is wrong with them and that they need to remain small to be loved. It may also manifest as a continual feeling of guilt that they should have more or achieve more.
The low self-esteem associated with an unresolved mother wound can also manifest as women comparing themselves to others. For example, they may compare themselves to other women whom they deem more successful, beautiful, or wealthy–and constantly come up short in their own perceptions. These comparisons then perpetuate the feeling that something is wrong with them.
Furthermore, experts suggest that the belief that their mothers see them as “not good enough” puts daughters in a double bind—they internalize the belief that they’re “not good enough,” but, as a result, become a self-fulfilling prophecy as they limit their positive beliefs about themselves and their potential.
How is the Mother Wound showing up in your life?
Career
Are you…
Feeling stalled or paralyzed in taking the steps you need to fulfill your career goals?
Feeling unable to speak your ideas or take risks for fear of being exposed or criticized?
Attracting bosses who trigger you, remind you of your mother, and seem to keep you down?
Playing out familiar patterns of your family of origin in your work environment?
Relationship
Are you…
Attracting partners who mirror the same issues you had with your mother and/or father?
Experiencing codependent patterns of people-pleasing, downplaying your needs, and over-functioning for your partner?
Having difficulty setting boundaries and honoring your true feelings due to fear of abandonment?
Creating a push-pull dynamic of longing for deep connection but pushing away for fear of getting hurt?
Friendships
Are you…
Settling for friendships that are not as reciprocal as you desire or deserve?
Attracting friends who are similar to your mother and replicate the dynamics?
Not able to find women who you can trust to make friends with?
Feeling frustrated about not being able to communicate your needs in friendships?
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Parenting
Are you…
A mom dedicated to breaking the cycles of mother-child pain?
Not wanting to repeat the same painful situations you grew up with, with your children?
Finding yourself having intense triggers with your child and unsure how to handle it?
Feeling overwhelmed and unsure how to balance self-care with all the caring you have to do?
Family of Origin
Are you…
Feeling like the more you grow, the more tension increases with your family of origin?
Noticing that big conflicts occur when you are honest and clear through setting boundaries or doing things differently?
Having a long-standing pattern of trying to create “peace” by silencing yourself, being over-accommodating and stuffing your feelings?
Trying for years to improve your relationship with your mother but it never gets better?
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